One of the most important tools in the work of relationship building is the Emotional Needs Questionnaire. This tool will help you understand your own most important emotional needs and how to describe them, but also learn the most important emotional needs of your partner. With this information you will be able to better make deposits into their accounts in the bank of love and trust. Just remember, to have this information and not do anything with it is a definite withdrawal of love and trust from your account in their bank.